What to say to a woman on a dating website
"Pre-Op" refers to the fact that she has not had sexual reassignment surgery (SRS), the sex-change surgery. A male-to-female transsexual is generally defined as a woman in a man's body.
Definitions: A "pre-op transsexual" is a woman in the wrong body, one who has breasts (through taking female hormones and/or breast implants), and a cock. A "non-op transsexual" means that the TS will not have SRS. I will be referring to both categories of TS as pre-op in this article, since it is a more widely used expression.1. The key thing to bear in mind here is: WOMAN in a man's body.
His girl will probably go all out to look very desirable. For those men who find themselves attracted to a pre-op TS but wary of the prospect of sex, here's a solution. I'm sure any guy thinking of sex with a pre-op transsexual woman has quickly inventoried all the places he can stick his cock. And a TS with the sensibilities of a genetic woman is very unlikely to want to fuck a guy in the ass or stuff it down his throat anyway, so a straight guy need not be concerned about it. Thanks and I will tell you how the date went." -from a man."That was one of the most awesome articles I have read.
Assuming that guy has read the earlier remarks in Section 2, then the solution is to think of having sex with a TS as just a plumbing issue. The guy has a girlfriend with a simple plumbing issue. I myself have limited experience in this matter, I have only dated one, and it didn't last very long.
Reading the articles at this website will satisfy your curiosity about what a TS is, what she needs and how she thinks. Women love to be "taken" by a masculine man, since it is the act of erotic surrender that centers them, that makes them feel like "a real woman." Therefore, hardly any TS with the sensibilities of a woman will be looking to "top" a guy or will be looking for a guy who wants to suck her dick.
Therefore, a man doesn't need to bring up TS issues on the first date. I keep using the expression, "a TS with the sensibilities of a GG..." for a reason, to distinguish the TS who wants to be treated as a woman, who fully identifies with being a woman, from those who cater to the submissive male crowd, the bi-male crowd and the thrill-seeking crowd for money. If he's just looking for a blowjob from a TS, or wants to suck some TS dick, cool. If he wants to get something real going, then forget about the escorts. Those girls get lied to every hour of every day and have heard it all.
And then, of course, there are guys who seem to just plain connect better with a pre-op transsexual than a GG.
Dating for us is such a minefield, strewn with so many issues, to tell, not to tell. The only issue you don't touch is violence, with is done to us a lot.She called it off due to what she said was her not being ready to commit.We are still friends and I call her every now and then.We also tend to be as feminine as we can be, a result of going through this process.Thank you." -from a TS woman."Hi, that's very good.